*Updated July 2019
We’ve all done it; Woken up in the middle of the night, with our mind hell bent on stressing about money.
I’ve been there.
What begins as a passing reminder to pay the hydro or cell phone bill can suddenly have you stressing about how you’d pay those bills if you lost your job, how you’re going to climb out of the debt you’re already in, or how you’re going to stretch what you do have to the end of the month.
If the topic of money gives you anxiety, there may be a deeper reason for it. The good news however, is that you can definitely get control of your financial thoughts and actions.
How to Stop Stressing Over Your Finances:
1. Focus Only on What’s Good.
There is mental and emotional strength in focusing on the good aspects of your finances instead of the negative issues. Of course, thinking positively won’t magically stretch your budget, but it can help keep the anxiety at bay.
2. Don’t “Double Dip”.
Pick a method of paying for things, and stick to it.
If you withdraw cash from the bank, leave the debit card at home. I used to take cash from the bank, but I’d still use my debit card for purchases.
I was “double dipping” in my bank account, and wondering where the hell all my money went at the end of the month!
3. Recognize your strengths
It can also help you recognize and appreciate your financial strengths, which could give you some answers to some of your problems.
Grab a piece of paper and start listing the positive things about your finances. If you have a job that you love, and have a nice nest egg tucked away for a rainy day, this is a good thing. Even when things are tight or money is causing you anxiety, taking a second to focus on what you actually have can help you calm down.
4. Rework Your Budget
When I get the most stressed about my finances, it often means that something’s up with my personal budget. It can be anything from overspending on certain categories (probably shoes), to not properly planning my purchases.
Regular budget checkups help you stay on top of what’s going on in your bank account. The feeling of being in control that it gives you, will help you stay focused.
Check these items off your to-do list when your finances start causing you stress;
Go over your monthly bills and spending habits, and make sure all your numbers are accurate by ensuring that receipts and bills match up with your budget. Dig deeper into anything that doesn’t “add up”, and fix them.
6. Create an emergency fund.
It’s expected that things can shift a little from month to month because of unpredictable events. This is completely normal, and this might be the perfect time to earmark a certain amount to an emergency fund to give yourself a little more peace of mind.
7. Reduce Your Spending.
Yeah I know; easier said than done.
Check periodically to make sure you’re in good shape each month, since going into debt would be exactly the type of stress you’re trying to avoid.
If you find yourself in the negative numbers more often than not, it’s time to rethink your money-making or spending strategy.
Think about taking a second job to bring in more cash, or reduce the number of nights you eat out, lower your cable or cellular bill, or postpone travel plans to restore balance to your bank account.
8. Pay Sh*t Off.
Create a plan to pay off your debts, and stick to it so you have some idea of when your debts are going to be paid off – this knowledge alone can help you breathe a major sigh of relief.
9. Get Your Financial Confidence Back 🙂
Past financial misdeeds can lead to an feeling of shame, or embarrassment, whether it’s a lack of money, faulty budgeting, or simply being ignorant of proper financial practices.
Unfortunately, that shame can cause anxiety and future slip ups. If that sounds like you, you’re not alone.
With an unemployment rate hovering around 7% and an average household credit card debt of over $8,000, it’s clear that you’re not the only one having financial stress.
When you’re feeling embarrassed about money, organizing your finances can set you on a more secure path.
There’s no shame in wanting to be better with money. Don’t feel awkward if you need to approach the subject with your partner, or see a professional for help.
10. Get rid of clutter!
If you’ve got cluttered spaces in your environment, clean those up! More then just being a nuisance, clutter contributes to financial frustration, and costs you money in the short run. Ending clutter helps to give you a sense of freedom, so you can see your way clear to managing your finances.
*Bonus; See a Professional
Making an appointment with an accountant or a financial adviser. They can help rid you of financial stress and anxiety.
Some financial advisers offer a no-obligation first appointment as a way to get to know each other.
The process is very much like seeing a therapist, but for your money. Just bring a list of goals and questions to the first appointment. If you feel comfortable, make arrangements to see the adviser on a regular basis.
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